The best thing for me about getting older is being able to engage in foreplay longer. I can kiss and caress my gf and get her really, really wet. I used to be like, "BANG" with cum almost instantly when my cock was touched by a lover.

 

It really depends on the definition of "better." A partner is critical. All my bachelor friends my age have pretty much given up. They seem content with the situation, and I understand. If you don't have a live in partner, sex can be too damned inconvenient. Your place or hers, is a lot more trouble after 50. I'm not going to say anything about the apartments or houses of my 50-something buddies.

On the other hand, if a man has managed to not run every woman away, sex can be very good after 50. It's different, but still good. There probably aren't any kids in the house, anymore, so staying in bed on weekend mornings is a lot easier. That always helps. The best thing to do is make a date. One or more times a week, when both are rested and no distractions are allowed. The biggest impediment to good sex is fatigue. One or both partners are exhausted. This makes late night sex disappointing and not satisfying for one or the other.

The sex drive is hormone driven, and the hormones decline as we age. It's just a fact of life. If you want to keep your sex life, you have to compensate for that. Do things that make it easier, ahead of time. It's incredibly easy to let it slip away. A lot of couples don't realize they have lost something until an anniversary or birthday and realize they haven't fucked in over a year.

 

I would have to agree, sex right now for us is amazing when we have time for it. my wife is 34 and I'm 35 we started swinging 2 years ago and it has really opened us to exploring. For us right now though we have 4 kids, jobs, house and car maintenance. so right now sex for us can be sparse but when find a quiet moment we make the most of it and when we can mesh with someone else's schedule even better.

 

Sex, just like any-fucking-thing, gets better with practise. Older age means one had more time to practise. Doesn't mean one did.

 

My wife is saying the same thing. Used to be many of her orgasms would just be a little "sigh"--not even sure if she came except for being sensitive after. NOW they've been hitting her like a ton of bricks!

 

I'm a 66yr old male Dom, I've been living the BDSM lifestyle for the past 52 yrs. I was introduced to a 20yr old lady over two years ago who had a fetish of her being controlled by a much older father figure. Since she moved in with me & we are playing out her fetish I have been having the best sex of my life. I don't when I was in my younger years sex was anywhere near what it is today.

 

Over the years, we learn what works. For those of us in LTR's we know our partners needs. Frankly, if we dont, theyre out finding it elsewhere. We also get to know ourselves better as well.

The old saying, it now takes me all night to do what I do all night.

I think because it takes us all night, the final result is a better result

 

When I was younger orgasms were great don't get me wrong. But now after I cum I wobble when I try to walk!!

 

thanks for the awsome replies. i feel this is so true. as we get more comfortable with our bodies it does wonderful things. touching and feeling get so more intense as we know what about to happen to our sexual organs.

 

Well said, hon. You've described it perfectly!

 

If I wanted the best sex possible, I would want the cock I had when I was 19, the woman I had when I was 34, and the brain I have today.

 

I would say no it doesnt

 

Yes, good job, keep having fun

 

What sex? Is there supposed to be such a thing at my age? That's fucking disgusting! Yikes!

 

The quantity has certainly diminished, but that is primarily due to my wife's health issues, sad to say. It has gotten more intense for sure. We are 55/53.

 

Just keep yourself in shape and it's great

 

I want to be having sex with Sir until we're both so old it disgusts people.

 

wow... after a 30-minute bout with this ebony beauty... I convince her to try getting my fist up her cunt a lil and the result was that she squirted for the first time in her life at 42 years. I seriously didn't believe her but she had no reason to lie.